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APRIL 7-9, 2009


It has taken me some time to sit down and write this entry. I certainly couldn’t do it the day of the procedure. It is now a few days later, and I am feeling much better, physically and emotionally, and am ok to recap.

Let me disclose by saying that my experience was less the norm, more the exception. There are women who have a hard time, some harder than I did. For the most part, I am told that the pre-op valium, vicodin and accompanying IV fentanyl does the trick. But you know me…I can never be the norm…so, let me take you through it, as the procedure and as the experience


I found this video on YouTube before my surgery. I think it is pretty thorough, and after going through the process, pretty accurate. A little cheesy? Ok, yes. But worth a watch.


I was late leaving to pick my husband up, I couldn’t get off the toilet. I was anxious. (Oh, I have found that instead of reading in the bathroom I can type on my laptop.) Every time I thought I was okay, back I went. I was surprised to be so anxious and uptight. By the time I got to my husband, I felt pretty ok. He wanted to drive, but I said no. I prefer to drive. He drags the clutch in my car, makes me nuts. I didn’t want to break into some argument about his driving because I was edgy about the procedure.


We arrived at UCSF and checked in on our regular place on the 7th floor. The nurse came out and took my vitals, which I thought were pretty good:

  • BP: 107/53
  • HR: 66
  • Weight: 172

My eyebrows raised at my low blood pressure. It is usually 115/65 or so. I couldn’t understand how it was so low when I was antsy, but better than high. I was very happy about my weight, fully clothed. I was down 13 lbs! My initial weight in February was 185 lbs. I have been working hard to get to my wedding weight of 162 lbs, and I am close. (Actually, for those weight watchers out there, my weight on my scale at home was 170lbs that day, and I am really only 8lbs from my goal, yay!!!)

After my vitals were taken, my husband and I were taken to an exam room to wait for the doctor to come in to complete the pre-op history, procedure explanation and consent. We did not know this was going to take place. So, while a bit surprised, in the end, I think a good thing that we had some time to review the procedure with the doctor.

After about 5 minutes, the Fellow entered the room. I had a moment. One that I think a lot of people have around our age. The one where you realize that one of the doctors treating you looks like Doogie Howser. M.D.. I suppose I shouldn’t be so dramatic, he wasn’t THAT fresh-faced. He was, however, not any older than my husband or I. I don’t know why I need someone older to treat me. I actually, now that I give it more thought, think that someone younger may be more on top of it. Like in one of the last “ER” episodes of the season…Carter was getting a new kidney and Benton just happened to be on staff at Northwestern (of course, Carter was too good to get his kidney transplant at County General)…well, Benton makes the old time surgeon go through the surgery “checklist.” The guy gets all ticked off that he makes him do it, as if he is being questioned, and all the years of skill that this surgeon has are invalidated because Benton wants to review the “checklist.” Well, you know, something goes wrong, and damn if they didn’t need something off that checklist they wouldn’t have had if Benton, the young guy, hadn’t reminded the old guy to get. Rambling moral of the story, it’s ok for my doctor to be my same age. Or even younger. Maybe just have the experienced guy on standby? 🙂

OHHKKAAYY, back to the history…The Fellow pulled my profile up on the computer and did a comprehensive review of my personal and medical history. My history was complete and correct in the system already, I could see all of the fields he was looking at. He did, however, make a note in each field that we reviewed and all was current. I appreciated this as it not only shows the next user that I am current, but when it was most recently reviewed with the patient. I know some of you may say, isn’t that an oxymoron? If it is current, what does it matter what date(s) you are current on? I say no! The more discussion the better.


At this point, the Fellow reviewed the risks of the procedure with me. He did this rather routinely, and quickly, stating that all risks had “well less than a 1% chance” of occurring.

  • Puncture of the uterine wall
  • Severe pain causing inability to complete
  • Discovery of item causing need for extended surgery
  • Infection

The Fellow explained that the hysteroscopy is one of the safest, minimal risk procedures they can perform to determine if there are any issues preventing a successful pregnancy. It is rare for the pain of this procedure to be such that general anesthesia is required. Although a risk, it is also rare that the hysteroscope, once inserted into the uterus, can completely perforate the uterine wall. The uterus, which acts like a muscle, he said, quickly heals around where the probe punctured…much like a sea anemone. Interesting analogy. However, that could cause immediate termination of the procedure.

At this time, Dr. S, who would be performing the actual procedure, entered the room and did a quick review of the procedure again for my husband and I. I was happy that Dr. S was going to be executing the procedure since he had done the Saline Sonogram and was the one who saw the “foreign body” in the first place. Also, my uterus is retroverted and, apparently, my cervix is a bit difficult to navigate. Dr. S was quite mindful of that and remembered my case specifically. As he discussed inserting the camera to view my uterus more clearly, we talked about the possibility of increased difficulty navigating, maybe needing to dilate my cervix. We also reviewed the different options / potential need for additional surgery based on findings. Dr. S was hopeful that whatever was showing on the ultra sound would be scar tissue or something equally benign that he could easily and painlessly remove during the exploration.

Honestly? No real questions by now. They did an excellent job describing, prepping, reviewing everything as far as I could tell. It’s funny, in that way things are funny but not funny, that you feel prepared, all questions asked, but you don’t really know what to ask. Not that anything really catastrophic happened. I am not leading up to the worst news ever. It was simply excruciatingly painful. You just don’t know the little parts of the procedure that are going to take place that if you did, you may have had questions. Example, the cervical block…they don’t really tell you they are going to stick a very long needle into your cervix, multiple times. They just say, then we perform the cervical block. You are led to believe that the IV drugs will eliminate all the wrongs in the world. Not the cervical block. I think I would have asked more questions about how that was done. Also, the video…there must be one from the camera, right? Where is that? I would have asked to watch live streaming video.

Moving on.

The Fellow turned to me and asked if I had the pre-op meds, I said I did. He gave me a dixie cup of water. I took a valium and two vicodin. Herein lies the genesis of the problem. The pre-op meds should have included one toradol. For whatever reason we found out, much later in the day, Walgreen’s never filled that part of the prescription that was called in. Somehow, I missed it…that this was a 4th drug in the instructions for pre-op. I don’t know how that happened. I am ususally SO organized and buttoned up. That I missed it…for some reason, looking back on it, I thought that toradol was the generic for valium. At the same time, the Fellow should have reviewed the pre-op medications specifically, as opposed to asking if I had the pre-op medications with me. All in all, in my mind, we all kind of screwed that one up. And, as a result, this was the most painful thing I have ever felt. The pain manifested itself in several ways—pinching, cramping, burning, stabbing—which honestly leads me to think that this would have been a painful experience for me no matter what. The toradol is a NAISD used to control cramping of the uterus. Ultimately, the cramping was the residual pain I had, but the pain I had during the procedure was beyond cramping pain and discomfort.


On to the procedure…after taking the pre-op meds, we were told to go upstairs to the procedure floor and wait for the nurse to get us. As we sat in the waiting area, I could feel the valium and vicodin take effect. It was good, though. Not good in a, dude, this is gooood way. More, good in a “I was paying less attention to my anxiety” good way. My husband and I started chatting about silly stuff instead of IVF stuff. I can’t remember what, but I remember distinctly thinking that it was so unimportant. And that it was totally ok. Have I said recently how much I love my husband? I couldn’t ask for a better partner in life or IVF.

The nurse came to get me, and brought both of us to the prep area, where my husband helped me change into a gown, surgical cap and booties. I was CUTE! At this point, I was a little woozy, and certainly needed the help. I was also a little disappointed I had to wear booties since I went for a cute pedicure that morning 🙂 Oddly enough, they told me to undress only from the waist down, even with the gown. I was happy I had a comfortable bra on and a soft, long sleeve thermal tee shirt on. Indeed, it was cold in there, so it was nice to have the shirt on.

From here we moved into the prep area where I sat in a very comfortable lazy boy-like recliner, very comfy. The nurse, Kathy, inserted my IV and started giving my fluids. They brought the wheel chair, I kissed my husband good-bye, and off we went down the hall to the procedure room.


Once in the room I moved onto the table, slid down and placed my thighs in the stirrups. I felt a split in the table right where my tooshie was. Dr. S dropped that part of the table out from under my toosh, and I was essentially suspended by my thighs and the tension of my back on the rest of the table. I was unsuspecting of this, so it took a moment to relax and get comfortable. If there is anything I have learned, it is that the less tense and anxious I am, the more accessible I am physically for the doctor. While it can be trying on me, the doctors and nurses, and my great husband, all work to get keep me breathing and as loose as possible.

Lying on the table as they set up, I looked around, thinking I really wanted to take in the equipment and instruments in the room. It was quite dim in there, and I was feeling a bit dim myself, but do remember a few things distinctly.

  • The nurse was on my left side next to my IV.
  • Next to the nurse was a sterile tray with vials of medication. I later learned this was fentanyl.
  • There was a set of monitors also on the left capturing my heart rate, blood pressure and oxygen levels.
  • Above me was a large, round light on a swing arm. Very stereo typical of what you would see on ER or Grey’s Anatomy.
  • At my feet was a large machine that had a color monitor and a printer. This was a new piece of equipment that the doctor and nurse were very excited to use. In fact, the technician for the machine was there, and in and out of the room when I was covered up to make sure it was functioning properly.
  • Also at my feet was a sterile tray with a speculum, the hysteroscope and betadine to clean my cervix.
  • The one thing I did not see, thankfully, was the syringe and needle that were to be used for the cervical block.

As he began the procedure, Dr. S told me that he would be talking me through every step, likely OVER talking. He said that some people didn’t like all the talking, but he wanted to make sure he was communicating as much as possible throughout so I knew what was going on. As I have said before, I am down with this approach.

He began by placing the speculum in my vagina, and really cranking that puppy open! He wanted to be able to have wide and full access. He then took the betadine and swabbed my entire cervix to sterilize the area. (Prior to swabbing, he asked if I was allergic to betadine. I really like the centers’ thoroughness when it comes to checking and double-checking for allergic reactions.) The swabbing felt like a wet, prolonged pap smear. I am not sensitive to pap smears, so this didn’t bother me…I know it gets to some people.

Following the betadine, it was time for the cervical block. Here, the doctor injects a local anesthetic around the cervix. Once the anesthetic has taken full effect, the cervix will dilate to allow the lighted scope to be inserted. Dr. S told me to expect a “little pinch” as he numbed my cervix. He also said that some people reported a metallic taste in their mouth from the medicine. HOLY COW! I didn’t just have a metallic taste in my mouth…I felt a buzz all the way up to my jaw. Yikes. But, it is done, SO I THINK…Dr. S then says, Ok, another “little pinch” on the other side. That was it. There were two injections, one into each side of my Phew, by this point I am in a cold sweat. I hear the nurse ask him if she should give me 25 of fentanyl. He says yes. I feel the drug wash over me like sun breaking through parting clouds on the beach. Yet, I still feel the pain. I am trying to think of things that relax me. Being at the beach. My husband kissing me on my shoulder. Laughing with my nephews. Going to s great spin class. Singing in choir. I still feel the pain.

I felt Dr. S place his hand on my thigh, apparently I am shaking pretty hard at this point. He tells the nurse to give me 25 more fentanyl. And, we’ll wait a few minutes to let the cervical block take effect.

Once the cervical block had taken effect, Dr. S threaded the hysteroscope through the cervix up to my uterus. At this point, I was seeing stars. I don’t recall if I was saying much, but I think there must have been a look of intense pain on my face. The nurse kept asking if I was ok, I was shaking my head and saying no. I was feeling an all-consuming, exquisite cramping I had never before felt. At the same time, I had sharp pain in the cervical area that the block did not eliminate. My sister-in-law reminded me she had a similar issue with her epidural not taking, and she felt her contractions down one side of her body.

Around this time, I remember lots of discussion between the nurse, Dr. S and myself, but not necessarily in sequence. Gas was released through the hysteroscope (to expand my uterus to give Dr. S a better view of my insides)…Dr. S was viewing my uterus through the scope, which was also visible on the video screen. I didn’t know where to look for it, and was distracted by my pain level. In retrospect, I would have liked to watch the video, it may have distracted me FROM my pain.

Once all the “prep” work is done, and the scope is in, the procedure is finished fairly quickly. I would say the entire process took about 30 minutes. For me, it was likely on the shorter side as there was not much to do once they were in there, and my pain level was so high. I was pleasantly surprised at how quickly they were done.

I must say, that through it all, Dr. S and Nurse Kathy were amazing, compassionate human beings. They did not treat me like a number, just another patient. They did not work the procedure like it was routine and commonplace. They were acutely aware of my comfort and pain the entire time. And, as objectively as I can say, I feel as though I was as tough as I could be. I was not complaining, whining or bitching at them. I remember clearly one moment when I felt hot tears streaming down my temples. I was unaware I was even crying. I was biting my lip, not speaking or making a sound, working to focus on anything but the cramping. The nurse quietly stroked my hair and gave me additional fentanyl.


I lay on the table for about 15 minutes waiting for the cramping to subside. The movement of the instruments in, out and around caused the most intense feelings. When I was able to get up, Kathy took me in the wheel chair back to the comfy lazy boy. Another nurse named Kathy was waiting with a heating pad, so nice. I was still in tremendous pain, doubled over, warranting, apparently, more IV fentanyl.

At this point, I asked for my husband. They wouldn’t let him in yet. Not until they had my pain under control. It would seem that many husbands become a but unruly seeing their wives in such pain. And, in turn, the wives become even more amped up. What the nurses didn’t know, is that my husband is so Zen. He would have brought such a great presence to us all, and it would have really helped me. BUT, I was in no condition to push it. They finally brought him in about 20-30 minutes later.

To end this very long story, it took a few hours for us to be released. My cramping was uncontrollable, and my pain level consistently at a 7-8. We maxed out the fentanyl I could take as my blood pressure was pretty low (somewhere around 80/45). After a couple of hours, we realized that I had not taken the toradol, the muscle relaxant. Fortunately, they were able to give me an IV dose, and after about an hour or so, I was on my way to feeling better. The other option was to stay the night in the hospital for pain management. I really felt that the fentanyl wasn’t doing the trick anyway, so I would rather be home. It is SO HARD to get rest in a hospital room. We were discharged around 5:30pm.


Dr. S prescribed me vicodin for the pain. This was helpful. However, I continued to have pretty bad cramps for 3 days following the procedure. Definitely worse than a regular period. I was just really nice to myself, laid on the couch, and waited until I felt better.


There was a bright silver lining to this experience…what had illuminated on my saline sonogram was a calcification that Dr. S was able to break up. It was nothing serious that required additional surgery, I was able to just grin and bear it. This meant there would be no healing time needed and we were clear to start our IVF cycle immediately.


Pre-op Instructions & Medications.


Post op care.

Relaxation during procedure.




Today is the day. We have our big appointment with Dr. Victor Fujimoto at the UCSF Center for Reproductive Health. I have been counting down the days. Like Christmas. Remember when you were little, and it seemed like time stretched on and on and on? Then you get to the day and you wonder, what is in store for you?

I had been preparing for weeks. I wanted to know as much as I could as to speak intelligently to the doctor. I didn’t know if he would be the God Complex type or the compassionate type. Would we have much time with him? Or would this just be a quick meet and greet and then he would send us off for more testing. Having most of the preliminary testing done beforehand was a good idea, I thought. {In the end, Dr. Fujimoto was pleased with that as well.}

My husband has a completely different approach. He prefers to hear what the doctor says, then ask questions based on results. This does make me a bit nutty. I think we should have questions prepared for all the options. We STRONGLY disagree here. What a learning lesson for me. I have to remember that we don’t have to think alike, or be the same. And I can’t expect him to act and think like I do. You know, it is probably better that we are different that way…he may be more open to hearing things I don’t since I have everything written down. I tend to get stuck in what I have in my mind.

We arrived for our appointment a few minutes early. I was happy my husband was ready on time, and we were there with time to spare. My husband likes to breeze in at the last moment, rarely thinking of the details that need to be taken care of when we arrive places-is there paper work to fill out…do we need to bring a gift or wine to a dinner party…will we be checking bags at the airport? This is how we ultimately compliment each other.

The women at the front desk were so kind, and knew us both by name. This made me feel so easy, like we were not just another name in their book. The offices were very nice, and well kept. When we walked in, and I was filling out the paperwork, I noticed my husband seemed a bit distant, glassy-eyed. I think the full weight of what was happening hit him at that moment. We had talked a lot about it, but you can never really prepare until you are in a situation, I think. And, he has so much going on at work right now, I know he hasn’t really had the bandwidth to process all of this. He has told me time and again how much he has wanted a “natural baby.” He wants a family so badly, he will do what it takes. And, we will adopt if we can’t have out own. But I know that the idea of the petrie dish makes him sad. Being the romantic that he is, the clinical nature of this knocks the wind out of him.

The nurse called me in to do my initial vitals…weight, blood pressure, temp…and I wonder, why do I wear boots, jeans and a heavy sweater? My weight shows a solid 5-7lbs more than normal. What a chub. I have gained about 15lbs since our wedding. Most people like to say, oh, married life. Really, I have just felt so ill this year that I have not made it to the gym much lately. I promised myself in that moment I would do what I could to drop some weight before we began a cycle. It would be at least 8 weeks. I can do some serious damage in that time! It really just takes focus on my part, and discipline on my husband’s part. He doesn’t like to eat his ice cream alone, so I really have to get him to promise not to tempt me.

Dr. Fujimoto came out to invite us to his office. I love when the doctor comes himself to the waiting room for you. They just seem more accessible to me that way. We went directly to his office, where Dr. Fujimoto had our file, preliminary testing and initial intake form. Prior to our visit, we were required to review and complete a LENGTHY packet of information. Dr. Fujimoto had clearly reviewed our packet, studied our test results and was well-prepared to meet with us. We came prepared with a list of questions and a calendar charting my menstrual cycle, LH surge, estimated ovulation and intercourse dates.

We spent about 15 minutes discussing our previous results with Dr. Fujimoto. At this point, he suggested we move into the ultrasound room where he would perform a vaginal ultrasound. Again, my husband would be with me, with a man I did not know prowling around my coochie! My husband is actually very cool about it, I am the one who is mortified. I am hoping the more we do it, the better I will feel.

Off we went, and I undressed from the waist down. At least this time the table had some cushion, was on an incline and had stirrups. HOWEVER, there was NO MODESTY with Dr. Fujimoto. I had the paper drape over my lap, and when I lay down on the table, he essentially threw it up over my waist. ohhhkaay! This was also the first time that I had a vaginal utlrasound where I did not insert the probe myself. He was not rough or anything, I was just a bit startled…my first meeting with a male doctor I didn’t know, and he was probing me! Like I said, I think it will get easier. And I think I will HAVE to get over it by the time we go in to birth the baby. I have heard that you just CANNOT care at that moment.

During the ultrasound there was a female nurse in the room (who did not introduce herself to me, huh?). Suddenly, Dr. Fujimoto became quite serious and very professional. The casual and friendly atmosphere redirected and my husband and I became silent. I was worried. And, to be honest, I was terribly sad. Heavy news was to come. Dr. Fujimoto began dictating notes to the nurse, describing the number of antral follicles found in each ovary. He gently removed the probe, asked me to get dressed, and invited us back to his office.

When we sat down with Dr. Fujimoto for our second discussion, the air in the room felt a bit dark to me. My husband and I were holding hands, we were determined to be optimistic. This was our first fertility visit, and had the idea that we would be sent for tests and take a few steps at a time towards a diagnosis and getting pregnant. We were so wrong.

For better or worse, Dr. Fujimoto was extremely candid with us. It was hard to hear, we were stunned. BUT, to say we were appreciative is an understatement. His ability to understand complex issues and explain them to people outside the medical profession is unmistakable.

Dr. Fujimoto’s assessment was:

  • My FSH level, at 9.8 units/liter, was high, and drifting upward. This was a surprise as my ob/gyn had reported all my blood work to be in the normal range. Normal range is actually 4-7 units/liter.
  • I had a significantly low antral follicle count of 8 follicles. A normal follicle count would be 40-50.
  • My husband has a borderline low sperm count at 20million.

What did all this mean? Could we proceed with IUI? This was the recommendation from our ob/gyn. This was also the preference of my husband, it seemed the most natural option.

No. With a drifting FSH level, my ovaries and egg quantity are likely compromised. I have a low ovarian reserve, and, like most women, am shedding close to 1,000 follicles per month. IUI would provide us less than a 10% chance per month of conception. IVF would provide us a 35-40% chance per month of conception. Dr. Fujimoto strongly recommended us to move straight to IVF. Indeed, he said that if we wanted to have a family, this was our time. In fact, we had no time to waste.

We left with a handful of cards for the IVF team…the coordinator, the nurse, the billing team, the urologist…I’m sure there are more I can’t remember right now. We all agreed we would spend the weekend deciding what to do and contact Dr. Fujimoto the following week with a decision and/or any follow up questions.

My husband and I walked into the elevator holding hands in complete silence. It is not like me to not start chatting right away. I like to know what he is thinking. I usually need to pry it out of him. I was in shock, though, that we had to move to the most drastic fertility procedure from the get-go. As we walked outside, my husband ran his hands through my hair, rubbed the back of my neck, and kissed the bridge of my nose. I always know how much he loves me when he does this. I couldn’t have married a better man.

I had my annual exam October 2008. At this time, I pressed the issue with my ob/gyn regarding next steps aiding our fertility. I was disappointed by her knowledge, or lack thereof, of both male and female fertility issues. This doctor is one of the most reputed in Northern California, and has been mine since I was 17 years old. When I asked her a few (in my opinion) basic questions, she was unable to answer them to my satisfaction. In general, I found her answers vague, uninformed and lacksidasical.

A few of the questions I asked:

  • Is there any concerns that my previous inclination toward cyst development is impeding my ability to get pregnant?
  • Has the amount of / duration of time I have taken birth control pills affected my ability to ovulate, and thus get pregnant?
  • What do you make of my cycle length(s)? (They were erratic for the first 4 months, then regulated at 24/25 days)
  • Are there dietary or environmental changes I can make to affect potential conception?

At the end of the exam, based on my short cycle length, my doctor recommended we begin a course of Clomid treatment for 3-6 months. Should this be ineffective, she recommended we see a specialist. She briefly explained to me that Clomid is the most common first-line fertility treatment used, roughly in about 25% of women with trouble conceiving. The purpose of Clomid is to establish a regular ovulation pattern. Unlike many other fertility medications which promote the production of more eggs from follicles, Clomid focuses on regular development of a single egg.

I left my appointment a bit frustrated by my doctor’s lack of knowledge, but excited to have a direction. I was off to my computer to do a little research. Google can be both a blessing and a curse in these situations.

MY ADVICE: Always proceed with caution! There is a TON of information out there, and at a certain point, you have to shut it all out and have a direct conversation with your provider to understand the best course of action for your case.

None the less…after a bit of research, my husband and I concluded that there were several tests that were supposed to be ordered prior to Clomid therapy. Additionally, I was suspect as to whether or not Clomid was the right course. After several messages to my doctor’s office, I was able to speak with her. She ordered the following tests:

  • Day 3 FSH levels
  • Day 7 LH and Thyroid

I went into the office the following day to pick up the blood work order. Attached to it was a form checklist / cover page with the title “Infertility Testing”. {I HAVE TO SAY: I actually paused, albeit the briefest of moments, when I read that walking down the hallway. It hit me that after all these years of dreaming of my perfect husband and beautiful children, all the years of loving my nephews unconditionally, all the years of gushing over my friends’ children, I was the one who was going to have trouble having a baby. All the late nights I had worked, the fantastic trips I had taken, the unbelievable experiences I had slipped away in one breath knowing I may have waited too long.}

This checklist included the description of 6 different tests the doctor may run to determine initial fertility issues. I wondered why we hadn’t discussed this previously? I read all of them, and their descriptions, noted the ones with “X” by them indicated I needed to complete, and then studied the others crossed off-as though I wouldn’t need to worry myself with those. Oddly, I did. I read them, and googled them to get an idea of the trajectory of testing ahead.


  1. Day 3 FSH (Follicle Stimulating Hormone) blood test
  2. Day 7-10 LH (Luteinizing Hormone) blood test
  3. Hysterosalpingogram (HSG)
  4. Hysteroscopy
  5. Exploratory Laproscopy
  6. Semen Analysis (PHEW! One that wasn’t for me!)

When I asked about the other tests, I was told that I would likely not need any of them. When I talked to my husband, mother and father about them, they told me I was being dramatic, and not to get ahead of myself. I just felt something was off.

At this time, I was VERY adamant with my husband that he get the semen analysis order from his doctor. I wanted to know on both sides what we were dealing with.

So, we were off! Testing was under way. We continued to have sex, during the right and “wrong” times 🙂 We used the mucous test and the First Response Ovulation Predictor Kits to determine my ovulation. When it was time, we had sex every other day. Based on my husband’s age (42) we were told he needed a day to regenerate good sperm.

Here I am, writing my first post in my blog chronicling our experience trying to get pregnant. What a journey so far. As many women have said, you spend your whole life worrying about getting pregnant, then the rest of your life worrying about getting pregnant! Isn’t’ it the truth.

A little about me…I am a 38 year old Caucasian female of Northern European descent. I have never been pregnant, had an abortion, D/C, ectopic pregnancy or the like. In 2002 I had a pelvic laproscopy to remove a large 9cm ovarian cyst, a 7cm tubal cyst and a mass of adhesions. The biopsy from the surgery revealed endometriosis. Following the surgery, I had a series of ovarian cysts on both the right and left ovary, resulting in several ER visits. In an effort to control this issue, my ob/gyn placed me on continuous high dose (30mcg) bcp. This course of treatment quelled the cyst production to 1-2 per year.

Upon marriage in 2007, my husband (42 year old Caucasian Male of Northern European descent) and I decided to stop bcp and begin unprotected sex. After 13 months of continuous unprotected sex, and timed intercourse based on basal body temp readings, mucous changes and OTC ovulation predictor kits (for LH surge), we had not conceived. My ob/gyn recommended we continue trying, possibly with the help of Clomid, for a few more months. I felt differently, and pushed to see a fertility specialist ASAP.